Keep doing something always what you like, and can do. The dynamics of the events where you chip in, will automatically get adjusted; and you can always feel satisfied that you could do something useful to yourself, for your near and dear ones, and may be for the society at large; whether people appreciate it or not, is a different matter; follow this dictum for ever.
And when you retire, or are at the fag end of your life, do not feel remorse that you could not do so many more things, just take it easy and live by what you could do; it is more honourable to die satisfied than otherwise; because you did what you really could do.
Better to spend always quality time with your family and friends.
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