If you get irritated every moment on every odd thing happening in your daily matters and affairs, then over a period of time it would become your characteristic, habit, and an identity, that you really were or are not at all;
And you will get used to live with that, and even would learn to justify it;
Like a prisoner who was heavily chained while in the jail;
Does not get sleep without it, even now that he is freed from the prison.
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