We all have fears. We all have cried for the fears. We all have tried to discard the fear, expel the fear from our hearts and we have prayed God for the total elimination of the fears.
However, have we ever really planned to find our real fears?
To me, the answer was NO.
When my mind kept harassed me and nagged me to do the things that I averse to, I unlocked my brain. Actually, why I hated other people, things, materials, ideas? The reason was because I was scared of them. That's the crux. Later then, to kill the fears, I stopped ignoring unnecessary thoughts.
Let's stop blaming our society and circumstance.
We create the fear in our brain, we feed it, we grow it. We only realise the implications later. When the fear we created expands to exude it's dissenting unfavourable result, we are saddened and condemned to blame others.
Here, let's give our brain an exercise so it'll work in order to deliver true facts. When there's no one to think about you and has the will to help you solving your very inner problems, why should you keep thinking about that, fear other that they will bad-mouth you and lock yourself in the dump? Get yourself unveiled from the distractions and disturbances. No one knows your every flaws and enhancements totally except you. Only you know what you're thinking and what you're worrying for. The fear of telling it to others may engulf you because you may think that the stuffs you're thinking aren't appropriate or serious.
Then, why are you thinking about them?
If you're having a problem, bud off the problem in the early stage. If you're unable to solve the problem, tell it to other. Develop the empathy between yourself and others. - friends,family etc. If the problem you're thinking about and cramming about couldn't be shared with others, just know it! You're evolving unnecessary mental disturbances. Stop worrying about them then. Trust me. It's not a problem. If it's a problem, you'll definitely be able to deal with them. If you can't deal with them, it means that you have to forget the inessential thing.
Now, smile hugely. You're unique because there's only one (insert your name here) daughter/son of (insert your dad's name here) who is living in (insert your home address here).
Be kind. Live and let live.
-TamilSelvi
