Why only a girl has to nurture relationships. Whether it is family or life partner. Why she has to sacrifice her own desire, her own dream, her own identity. She has to forget "what she is". All people expects her to be someone who can play like popate. People often talk about equality. What does equality means for them? Where a girl is bound by all responsibilities to handle relationships, to take care of home, to take care of children. Are these responsibilities only of a girl? When they talk about equality, why it is not the responsibilities of both- Man and woman? Why they think , she should live her life as they want her to live? Doesn't she is a individual? What about her individuality? Have you ever asked her about her desire, her dream, her way of living life? No. You are only expecting her to be what you want. She fulfills all desires of others without saying a word. Whether she likes it to do or not. Can't you be her side for her? Can't you share all responsibilities and make her free to complete her dream. Is she not a human? Why you make her feel like she is not amongst humans? She does not need expensive things, she needs your support, courage to follow her dream. All you can do is appreciate her passion. Why she needs to hide her pain under her fake smile in front of her own people? She is killing herself inside by putting smile on her face.
You know, when female celebrities like Saina Nehwal, Geeta Phogat, Saniya Mirza, Kalpana Chawala, Sunita Williams does something extraordinary, people will say proudly "She is a daughter of India, she is our daughter." Where this feeling of being proud goes when it comes to your daughter, your sister, your mother, your wife, your friend? Have you ever asked her what she want to become? No. You made her believe that, her born is just to serve family, childrens and should be bound by walls. These all celebrities are not born with "celebrity Face". They achieved it by herself but with support of her mother, her father, her brother, her husband, her parents in law. That's why they are proud daughters of India.
Set her free to follow her dream, break cages around her, let her Fly.