Dedicated To All Girls...!!
Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint, might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little.
Just-Because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean she's been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.
Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless.
Just-because she has recently gone through a break up doesn't mean she is vulnerable and available.
Just-because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is "having a good time" with all of them.
Just-because she has a drink in her hand does not mean she is an alcoholic.
Just-because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day.
Just-because she is ambitious doesn't mean she isn't a family person.
Just-because she doesn't discuss her plans doesn't mean she's clueless about life. Give her a chance, alright?
Just-because she is outspoken doesn't mean she is a rebel.
Just-because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues.
After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Don't make that one weekend party make her look like a she's a frivolous party-girl without a job.
Just-because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It's how she relaxes, respect that.
Just-because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe it's a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe that's how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice, okay?
Just-because she is a woman doesn't mean she can't kick ass in military school.
Just-because she has a tattoo doesn't mean she is attention seeking. Maybe that's her way of expression.
Just-because she doesn't know how to cook doesn't mean she won't make a good wife. Remember when you were just married and cooked chicken curry which was um, a disaster?
Just-because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesn't mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts.
Just-because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you.
Yes we cry, we are emotional; we take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge us in the wrong way. Times are changing; don't confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. There are some who might be fighting this losing battle, yet compromising on their decisions and plans, just to please society.
Just Give Respect..!!🙏😊