Often, we are not concerned with planning and deciding our future, but we are more concerned of our habits: I like this and don't love that, be it food, or clothes, and so on; and at times people become so fussy about these things that they lose temper and sleeps; as if the skies have fallen;
In the process such people, seem to be living for eating, and they are not eating for living.
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In a way, such people don't decide their future, but their habits decide their future.
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