What do I mean by saying:
The real joy is the total experience of the self?
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The point is that if we have 100% full knowledge and awareness of our own self: our own requirements, our own capabilities and possibilities; then we are, in principle and even in practice complete, and the joy of this experience is the real, there is no falsehood, no illusion, and no covers; what a great state of feeling!
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However, reaching to this state might require heroic efforts by our BMI/PFT (perceiver, feeler, thinker); No lunch is free lunch!!!
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