Noone can motivate you better than your own failures but it depends upon how you consider your failure i.e. if your perception is positive then it will definitely lead you towards success. That's the part of perception.. who considers it as life lesson, gets Motivated and who doesn't, for those guy it's a big lose.
After born, a calf will think that mother cow will come and support it to wake up then it will never able to walk.
Same as, God has gifted us a hidden power that self motivate us when we expect someone/god to come and help us.
Nobody can help you besides yourself because You're the only one who knows how will you get relief to come out of that pain. And to remove pain first you'll have to face the pain by standing up for ownself. 🤟🏻