know some of you might not agree but i believe it's always better when no one knows.. let me explain: let's pretend you just won the lottery, would you rather know who actually cares about you BEFORE they know you have money or AFTER the fact? knowing beforehand only makes sense since you find out how much they love & care about you even if you have nothing to offer. that fake love goes out the window if you avoid the ones who treat you badly before you get rich. bottom line is move smarter especially when you have life changing news.