If you are retired, then your speaking ventures in your house should be reduced to one tenth of what you were doing in your office; if you were uttering 100 sentences of advices, orders and expletives (all together), then in the home now you should speak only 10, and never a single expletive; for the latter adventure you will be rebuked a number of times; since this is not tolerated here in the house; better is to even use only five sentences for your basic needs of: bath water, breakfast, two meals, and going to bed; there will be a lot of peace; in the job-office you were the boss, here you are now a retiree and dependent on others, because you might be even a patient of BP, Diabetes, vertigo, or the cancer, or any other health problems; and you will be daily reminded of these latter achievements and not of the laurels you might have attained in/from office work.
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