I called someone today and was discussing something but without listening to me that person started suggesting me. I said listen to me first, you never listen and guess what that person disconnected my call. I felt very bad and was thinking what happened? This is really disappointing😞
People are just interested in saying. They don't want to listen. They are interested in judging, giving suggestions. But how someone can suggest without listening to the full problem.
Many times I also do this and it's very common. There is nothing wrong in that. But when someone points me that listen to me, I do listen 👂
Why are people so frustrated now a days? They behave like this. My mood gets spoiled after this. I thought I will never speak to that person again. But you can not run from few relations.
Recently I read an article regarding active listening. So I can understand that I should not repeat such mistake. I realised why reading books are so necessary.
But only write ups and reading won't help till the time we practice it. May be when we start practicing it we will do mistakes for sure. In the beginning we will speak in between 8 times out of 10. But slowly and gradually our mistakes will be reduced.
I realised that schools are there for education. This is also equally required to learn. This can save many relations. According to me there should be classes for that and this should be mandatory.
