you are escorted by a band on two occasions in life first one when you tie a nuptial knot and secondly when last rites are performed. on both the ocassion one is left alone. people leave you soon after the nuptials knot is tied. they leave you alone in the world to find your own place. Happy is one whose partner (male/female) is understanding; if not it's a hell. lastly people leave you alone when put to fire.
ultimate truth.