anecdote from Dakshineswar; a gorgeous;paragon of beauty; tall;charming; attractive and after all filled with a great megnatic force ; in short she was looking like Menka. she came to have darshan of Kali maa. young Vivekananda was lost in her beautiful looks and couldn't with drew his eyes fro her ; suddenly master Ramkrishna Paramhansa uttered "aye where are you lost"? soon he came to his senses as if Shatabadi express has come to a sudden halt. all his love;all his mohabbat was shattered by Master. " can anyone be more beautiful than maa kali.". "you are looking at flesh which gives rise to lust" ......ponder please