People don't do anything without any reason and this reason only gives them a chance to blame others.You are doing a job, because there is some reason, there is some need. Depression also comes with the reason of not being loved, of not being cared for. The second coping mechanism is aggressive behavior, which leads to hurt or hatred. There is only one way to get rid of depression, either leave the person or situation as it is, or love yourself profusely so that you don't need anybody acceptance. The Master and Slave attitude is still rampant, but it comes with some limitations. People who don't understand these limitations start giving reasons. Love and caring are always the reasons. Finding the meanings of the reason is a reason, too. Usually, people don't find a respite from this Marry-Go-Round. Therefore, for their benefit, they would like to follow other blindly, to be in the good books of, to be in a favorable position. let's try it once, Love thy enemy. Your mirror will get cracked