In one's life a man/father must be ready to reconcile any A,B, or C plan to lead his life, as long he is safe and healthy; other things shouldn't matters to him or them;
For being safe and healthy:
Keep good rapport with strong and highly faithful friends and relatives;
without which you might feel lonely;
we can't live our lives peacefully without good people's support;
that is the key thing in human life;
and of course the support from the good doctors.
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