Space — what is the real meaning of space?
It’s not just a physical gap. In this context, space means acceptance, support, freedom, and the emotional room for someone to grow without fear or judgment. It’s about allowing others to be seen, heard, and valued. To "make space" means to remove ego, let go of envy, and choose kindness over competition.
When we make space for others to shine, we are not stepping back; we are standing beside them, saying, "Your light matters too."
In today’s fast-paced world, where everyone is chasing success, validation, and recognition, people have slowly started seeing others not as fellow humans, but as competitors. It’s become common to believe that if someone else shines, it somehow dims our own light — but that’s a myth deeply rooted in fear and insecurity, not truth. Human psychology shows that our ego often creates a scarcity mindset — the belief that there’s only limited success, happiness, or attention in the world. So instead of supporting each other, people often choose to stay silent, withdraw support, or even block someone’s path, just to feel a step ahead. This mindset might give temporary satisfaction, but it doesn’t build lasting peace or respect.
“A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.” – James Keller
🎉 Cheering for the Unseen Effort
When someone starts something new — a business, a dream project, a passion, or even a small step towards self-growth — most people don’t appreciate them. In fact, many ignore them, doubt them, or talk behind their backs. Why? Because we’re conditioned to applaud only when success is already visible, not when courage is shown.
But the truth is, the beginning is when people need support the most. A kind word, a small share, a like, a referral — these may seem small, but they mean everything to someone who’s just starting out. Unfortunately, many stay quiet, either due to jealousy, fear of being left behind, or simply because they don’t want others to rise before them.
“People will celebrate your success, but very few will support your start.”
This is where you can choose differently. You can be the rare one who uplifts others even before they’ve proved anything. You can be the one who cheers for effort, not just achievement. That is what it means to make space for others to shine — it’s not just about giving chances; it’s about giving belief.
🌍 Facts and Psychology Behind Uplifting Others
Making space for others is not just a moral act — it’s scientifically proven to improve both emotional well-being and team performance. According to a study by Harvard Business Review, leaders who actively support and encourage others create workplaces that are 70% more productive and 80% more emotionally safe. In other words, when people feel they have space to grow, they actually perform better.
Psychologists also talk about something called the “Helper’s High.” This is a feeling of joy and fulfillment that comes when you do something kind for someone else without expecting anything in return. Helping others isn’t a loss — it’s healing for the soul.
“True leaders don’t create followers, they create more leaders.” – Tom Peters
But these truths aren’t just for leaders or big influencers. They apply to everyone — in families, friend circles, classrooms, offices, or even online communities.
🌟 Real-Life Example: The Story of Tyler Perry
Tyler Perry, now one of the most successful filmmakers and actors in the world, was once homeless and struggling. When he started his journey, very few people supported him. But one person, a small-time theater owner, gave him a chance to showcase his work. That one opportunity changed everything.
Years later, Tyler didn’t forget. He became known for giving breaks to newcomers, unknown writers, and young artists. Many of them have now built careers because he made space for them to shine.
This shows the power of just one supportive person — one chance, one kind gesture, one voice that says, “I believe in you.”
“Sometimes, the greatest gift you can give someone is to believe in them before they believe in themselves.”
🌱 Everyday Ways to Make Space for Others
You don’t have to be rich or powerful to make a difference.
Here are simple ways you can support others in your everyday life:
- Appreciate openly. Tell people when they’re doing great — even small words matter.
- Share opportunities. Don’t gatekeep resources or contacts — pass them on.
- Encourage growth. If someone wants to try something new, support them instead of doubting them.
- Stand up for others. When someone is being overlooked, speak up.
- Be kind behind their back. What you say when they’re not around defines your character.
These small actions create a big shift in energy — from competition to community, from comparison to connection.
💖 Final Thoughts
Let’s not be afraid of others’ light — let’s be the reason it shines brighter.
Making space for others does not mean you are less; it means you are confident enough to see others rise and kind enough to cheer them on.
Because when we build others, we build something greater than success — we build humanity.
“When you support others with a pure heart, God supports you in ways you never imagined.” – Nensi Vithalani
