Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
राज्यं सुताःकलत्राणिशरीराणिसुखानिच ।
संसक्तस्यापिनष्टानितवजन्मनिजन्मनि ॥