After her daughter-in-law (DIL), then of 45 years, had expired, due to some other health problem, and not because of the kidney transplant;
My mother had said:
The God should have taken my life, since I am very old (94 years), why did he snatch away my DIL from my son?
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My younger brother, now US citizen, visits our mother in India once in two years.
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This is to mention the facts, and for the purpose of motivation, rather than for 'self-praise'.
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