It is very important and sort of mandatory that we the humans look into our inner-self to examine whether we are in a peaceful state or not, more so to know why there is a conflict in our personality and behaviour;
when there is no inner tranquility, then this conflict reverberates into the outside world, and in all probability, it would disturb the peace in your own vicinity, and more so it would adversely affect your own near and dear ones, since they are remaining very closer to you;
this will hurt their feelings, their relationship with you, and many more people, and many events.
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So, it is your own pious duty to search your own self, and try to resolve your inner issues and problems, so that the peace prevails in you and around you.
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