An honest but eternal dilemma!
I can’t believe that a nerdy idiot like me has so many romantic gestures but a gorgeous girl like you, having none. Or aren’t you sharing any? Just remember: I strongly respect brutal honesty over mild diplomacy. So be really forthright with your feelings, not just with words. How’s it possible that your ex wasn’t interested in you? How come a gorgeous girl like you, who’s a couple of years younger, would want to converse with a geeky, boring person like me? It's possible that the ex wasn't interested in the person for reasons unrelated to their physical appearance. Attraction is subjective and not solely based on looks.
Chapter-3 of “The Evolution of Romance" is coming out soon..