Unfortunately, our human mind is so anxious, that we are, in our free time, engaged in all sorts of gossips on mundae topics:
politics, neighbors' progress or their downfalls, income tax, our bosses, our past, and so on... what others should do and should not do.
80% of our mind's wandering is actually not fruitful at all.
We often get engaged in discussing from which there is no value addition in our own lives.
And we always think, what we do is the best, sans any contemplation or self- analysis.
Though we are seeking happiness and joy, we waste our energies in negativity most of the time!
This is the dichotomy of our human mind.