If someone constantly keeps blaming you, then do not care about it. It happens so often, when mothers constantly blame their children, the children stop caring about what their mother is saying. This is because they know she is going to continue the same behaviour every day, right ?
The trouble happens when someone who never complains suddenly complains. When someone who is never rude suddenly becomes rude, that bothers you more, isn’t it so?
Either you are eternalizing the problem, or you lack the skill to deal with what is happening. These are the only two aspects to it. So skilfully handle these situations and do not eternalize them.
- Gurudev Sri Sri..