If you want to change someone about being connected with you with little bit change in their natural shape,
First of all
It's the most important role to be performed by own is.....
Mold yourself first in same way, change something about yourself first,
Forget your originality and...
to motivate other's to get reshape, got ourselves reshaped first...!
It will look excellent if it happens from both sides, for sure. ☺️