IMAGES
When you create an image about anything or anyone including and especially about yourself, be prepared that one day it will be shattered. Because the image exists only in your mind. Yes, even the image about yourself. If you are lucky you will get away with it.
But if and when the image shatters don’t blame the one who shatters it. Nobody asked you to create the image and no one is responsible for the image you hold in your mind. You created it, got attached to it and will grieve over it.
That’s how it works. You build an image and build a world view around it. When the image shatters, your world comes tumbling down.