Relationship and love both are different things.
It does not mean that you are in a relationship with someone, it means it's love.
It is possible that any person lived with someone in the entire relationship and love is nothing.
Then what is real love?
It is not necessary that you remain in the relationship with him/her. If I see the me in your eyes. Or you see your self in my eyes. That all is love.
Where i am and wherever you are, love is not there. Where there is two there is no love at all. As like lord krishna and radha. We call them "radhe krishna"
I am not talking about physical attraction towards the opposite sex or towards the same sex. We gave them the name of love.
Wherever there is a try, there is no love at all. Where there is a separation, there is no love at all. Where there is sensations, there is no love at all. You understood this excitement or sensations as love. No there is not Love.
If you are looking at someone and you are getting release some chemical in your brain. Then you call it's love. No buddy that's not love. That's only sensations. No chemical stimulus, no need,no ideas, there is nothing in between, it is love. That is love.
Is there something in between that is not love. That is necessities. It means A cat loves a rat. Because she thinking about rat whole day. She needs rat. Because she is hungry once she find a rat she eat it. She has a selfish motive. Whenever you have a selfish motive there is impossible to love.
When you are sitting in front of him/her you can see him/her for hours & hours without thinking. Then you call you are in love. You can live with him/her with out any expectation, then you are in love.
It does not mean that you are against physical or psychological, it is all but equals as much as its imporatance.
it means you are thirsty drink water.
you will not drink water all day. Love does not mean flapping, Love means stand.
This one does not happen in one day or in a week. it takes a life time to understand the depth of Love. Love means to be connected in a way where there is no space for separation.
You can just be with that person for hours and hours and hours. Love is where to be finished is impossible.
Okay, tell me one thing, does moon see on full moonnight or it's just a reflection? It's a reflection, Right! Who is this reflection? Light's. where this light come from? Sun.... Okay? Because it's an only source of light. So can you see the light between sun and earth? No..In actual light travels but never sees. So in actual there is a light but there's a darkness. Light sees when it meets moon.
Without light do you see the moon? Probably...No, In actual there's a moon but we can't see it without light. Even moon doesn't know about it's existence without light. Same thing light doesn't know about it's existence without moon.
When light reaches to the moon.The light who was darkness is now shining.The moon and light both know their value. The moon says "you are the only one" When the light says " I am the only one". The light who travels a lot but doesn't find it's existence, It thinks I am nothing. But when it meets moon it's not only find it's existence but also know about it's value.
That's true love! When you think"When you came in my life, I had gotten the purpose of my life. I understood my value!"
"LOVE IS NOT A TEMPORARY FELLING OR EMOTIONS. FELLING OR EMOTIONS CHANGE SOMETIMES DAILY. BUT TRUE AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS EVERLASTING."
