You must have noticed some people don’t announce their presence, yet the room feels different once they arrive. Well, that's the magic of a strong aura. To put it simply, an aura is an energy that one creates through their thoughts, emotions, and actions. People may have some great inputs, but a weak aura will obstruct the impact. That's why it is important to have a strong aura; your vibes enter the room before you!
And the best part? Strengthening it doesn’t require a personality change, just conscious alignment.
But let's first address the elephant in the room. Let's understand how the aura is disturbed or weakened.
- Energy Is Lost in Small, Daily Moments
Auras don’t weaken because of major failures. They weaken through small, repeated habits.
Over-explaining after your point is already clear.
Saying yes when your body quietly says no.
Replaying a casual comment long after the moment has passed.
- Choose Response Over Reaction!
Not every emotion needs instant expression.
Think of moments when someone’s remark feels dismissive. And you immediately replied. Stop then and there! The urge to immediately defend or clarify is natural but costly. Instant reactions often drain more energy than the situation deserves.
Shift: Pause. Let emotions settle before responding.
A measured response strengthens your aura far more than a clever comeback.
Emotionally strong people are not expressive all the time; they are selective.
- Speak From Completion, Not Approval!
Stop seeking validation.
You state an idea, then keep adding explanations, until clarity turns into justification. Authority doesn’t grow from over-communication; it grows from inner certainty.
Shift: Say what needs to be said. Stop selling it.
Silence after clarity carries power.
- Self-Respect Is an Energetic Practice!
Every time you overcommit, ignore intuition, or tolerate what feels misaligned, the aura weakens quietly.
Unnecessarily agreeing to responsibilities that drain you and resenting them later creates inner conflict. The body remembers these compromises even when the mind rationalises them.
Shift: Honour your inner no as much as your outer yes.
Integrity is not moral, it’s energetic.
- Enter Spaces With Stabilised Energy!
Many people enter meetings, conversations, or gatherings already scattered, mentally rushed, emotionally loaded, or self-conscious. Don't be all over the place.
Notice how even preparation feels ineffective when you enter a space hurriedly.
Shift: Before entering any important space, pause.
Three slow breaths. Feel your feet. Slow your movements.
Grounded energy is always felt as confidence.
A Numerologist’s Insight
As a numerologist, I often see that even strong numbers lose impact when emotional boundaries are weak. However, as a general trend;
People born on 1st, 3rd, 10th, 12th, 19th, 21st, 28th, and 30th of any month carries Solar Aura. They are warm, creative, and magnetic. Attention finds them!
Those born on the 2nd, 7th, 11th, 16th, 20th, 25th and 29th are governed by Lunar Aura, making them highly intuitive and soothing. People usually open up around them.
Next in Earth Aura - people born on 4th, 6th, 13th, 15th, 22nd, 24th and 31st of any month fall under this category. They are grounded, protective and dependable. Mostly have steady energy.
Those born on the 5th, 8th, 14th, 17th, 23rd, and 26th generally have a strong, electric, catalytic, and powerful aura.
Those born on the 9th, 18th and 27th of any month come under a rainbow aura, making them compassionate. gealing and inclusive. They usually are great at uniting the people around them.
BOX FEATURE: The 3-Minute Aura Reset (Real-Life Practice)
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Use this before meetings, conversations, or emotionally charged situations:
Pause your body – Sit or stand still. No phone.
Breathe slowly – In for 4 seconds, out for 6 (three times).
Ask silently – “What energy do I choose to carry into this moment?”
This simple reset recentres your presence and prevents unnecessary energy loss.
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The Real Aura Upgrade
A strong aura is not about attracting attention. It’s about reducing inner friction.
When you stop over-explaining, over-reacting, over-giving, and self-abandoning, something shifts. Conversations feel lighter. Respect deepens. Presence becomes steady.
Your aura is not something you display; it’s something you live.
PS: In the next part will be discussing real-life practices and tips to protect your AURA, if this part gets good support!
Do drop your birthdate in comment section and will share some personalised tips in comment section also!
