What are the most important things to consider when entering a new relationship
1. You don't know half the truth about the person you're getting into a relationship with.
2. Everybody harbours some secrets they’ll never reveal. Not even in the best of relationships.
3. Before you get into a relationship, try to carry out a private background check on your partner. I know. This may sound a little absurd at first, but in the end it may save you lots of pain and agony later.
4. People change. Even the person you’ve fallen in love head-over-heals with may change.
5. When getting into a relationship, trust is more important than love.
6. A relationship is about taking risks. If the risk is not very well calculated, the cost may be high.
7. Arranged relationships don't work very well, especially if they're arranged by close friends, relatives, or parents. This is because they’re not the ones taking the risks.
8. A relationship has three important components: i) Love is vital to bring passion into a relationship and keep it going, ii) Friendship, which is important to build trust, and iii) Trust, which is important to solidify a relationship. Ensure that both of you have the same qualities.
9. Prepare for unknown outcomes. There will be issues and things beyond your control, which you must deal with. Financial stability is most important. Make sure both of you have a source of income and a contingency plan.
10. There's something more important than finances, and that is your psychological well being. Nothing is more important in a relationship than your psychological and emotional stability.
11. Disagreements are inevitable and remember, in a relationship there's no monopoly of opinion.
12. Most disagreements in a relationship center on money, possessiveness, jealousy, and selfishness.
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Food For Thought
People are going through too much to start adding more to the sorrow and pains they carry around, if you won't help or relieve their pain, please let them be, don't be the reason someone cries every night to bed.
Why make them fall for you if you won't fulfill the promises you made when you know once they fall, they fall with everything, why hurt others for your pleasure knowing you're destroying someone's life?
Why promise them when you know you won't fulfil it or have you forgotten, when you promise them, they put all hope and trust in you believing in a better tomorrow, what would you gain is the reason behind people don't love them, don't convince them
If you won't spend a lifetime with them, don't give them hope
If you know they aren't your class, leave them and let them find people who will see them as worthy
Don't take them away from people who would have loved them more than you would ever do.
Don't be the reason for someone hating love
Don't be the reason someone remains in agony for life
Don't be the reason someone can't be happy all their life
Please let's heal instead of destroying because clearly, it's not taking us anywhere!
