MEN & WOMEN RELATIONSHIP
YASHWANT KOTHARI
No definition would be perfect for men & women relationship but an analytical treatise can give some explanations for definitions.
Since time immemorial these questions have been asked to all time generation and perfect answer is yet to be achieved. Why so? What more? What is missing and above all what exactly one wants from other, all are in dark and a ray & light is awaited. The relationship is wonderful, astonishing, questionable, erotic, sexual, platonic, super human like, as low as rape or as high as of God’s relationship with his disciples. A woman may be satisfied with simple security or a small house with one or two kids & may be unsatisfied with wealth of the world, so is the case of a man what exactly he wants is unknown, He gets almost every thing but remains unsatisfied and runs after more & more relationship but with out any satisfaction, with out any consideration & above all with out any men hood. What is the dynamics of this relationship? Whether it is kinetic energy of the relationship or it is static energy in side the body and soul, which governs the relationship. Libido-energy is one of the energies, which is said to be responsible but how far and to what extent? What is the moment of inertia and how long it survives?
The static energy can be converted into kinetic energy and vice versa but physically the value of both the energies is same, but life is not physics only, it is much more than that.
The chemistry of the relationship can also be a way to study and understand the relationship. The body language can give us a chance to know the relations, but often not to the correct measurement. There is no thermometer to measure the temperature of such relationships however the inner barometer can give an idea of the pressure.
All men and women feel the need for erotic relationship at least unto a certain age group that cannot be ear marked. True passion gives satisfaction. Such satisfaction keeps the relationship alive, rich and long term thrives. It may be called as a natures call. The relationship may cause stress, tension, and anxiety but once they go back to bed all these things vanishes out.
Al most all men and women feel the need for erotica with their loved partners. True passion is romantic and relationship gives satisfaction. The erotica keep relationship alive, rich and binding. The kind of degrees of orgasm is the decisive factor in relationship.
The level of excitation and emotional contact decides the extent of orgasm. Lovemaking is private and universal both. There is always emotional tension and emotional relationship after making love.
All kinds of emotions are stirred in love; it may be wild excitement of fast passion or of reunion after absence. In adult case love relationship, establish a new kind of continuum.
Mature functioning is characterized by inter dependence. One should be able to share the problems also, Relationship is never interdependent it is always intra dependent on both the sides. Love hate relationship is an end less process and will continue as most debated topic.
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