Complication of Life- Simplify it.
R. K Lal
Life is not all that complicated. Often we complicate our life. We often regret, “O God! Why is my life full of complications and problems?” This expression is itself full of complication and mysteries because that is my perception of life. The most complicated task today is finding a way to live simple life. Daily unsolved mysteries are added to our life, mostly adopted by own wishes because of human complexities. We keep them wrapped over our self. This is just like during an excursion or enjoyment trips, we bring many additional items filling our wardrobe unnecessarily. Today’s world has many luxuries that are supposed to make life easier. At times they may, but other times, they make things more complicated. We hardly throw old items thinking that it would be of use at later life but perhaps rarely or never. Exactly in our life every day we go on adding the feelings of many happenings, thoughts, situations, sorrow and moments of pleasures in the memory which hangs up our mind and ruining our behavior. So stop buying new worries, you do not really need.
Looking to other people always bring complications. The cause is comparison. From comparison it leads to competition, struggle and may even end in frustration. Our desires, ambitions, hopes to fulfill lives and mind's unlimited demands and necessities are nothing other than the effort to fulfill the nothingness within.
It is very difficult to be simple but one can try by stopping the additional accumulation of junk in our life. Start avoiding future headaches right the first time.
When Bill Gates became rich he wanted to compensate the boy who gave him free news papers 19 years back at New York. He traced him out and tried but that boy said “how can you compensate as I gave free papers when I was poor and you want to give when you became rich.” Still Bill Gates could not get rid of that obligation. He kept this in his bracket and did not open for long. So return the items or value whatever you have to do at the earliest, any good you got from others and delete bad things you have been experiencing. Do not accumulate and be tension free as early as possible. Similarly a search around the home will find many things that are not needed, or are no longer used. Find different ways to get rid of the things that are no longer necessary.
Simplication will muster up the strength to face it. Simplify by giving up the idea of perfection. Be confident that you're a good partner, a good parent, and a good person. Trust yourself more and do what comes naturally. I would suggest adopting mathematics rule given below to simplify the complexity of life and to solve the problems related with quality of life. In mathematics to calculate the answer BODMAS (Brackets, Orders, Division, Multiplication, Addition and Subtraction) is a useful acronym that lets you know which order to solve as without it your answers can be wrong. Brackets are just like ROM of a computer a most complicated part to simplify. Huge reactions of our life’s inputs and outputs are stored inside it and used to take even revenges later on. That is the root cause of frustration and tension. Simplify this portion first of all. Showing or imposing power over other, leads to ego, is as order in mathematics. This should be eliminated as a second step. Division is very important to keep social relationship alive. Simplify relationship with any one by cutting down the equal valued attributes. Multiplication with negative thoughts will make all your treasures of happiness negative. So one should be cautious and should learn how two negatives can be multiplied to make both positive.
Be positive! Change your unhelpful bitterness into determination. All you need to do is shift your focus frequently as required.
At the end you can easily add or subtract. Here learn to say no to undesired things. Once you have done above, be content with that you really did the best you could. In most of the cases, you will succeed but for those where you don`t, you will need to accept that as well and Move on.
Create a life the feels great on the inside too you, not one that just looks great on the outside to everyone else. Worrying about problems does nothing but steal your joy HENCE always spend at least 90% of your time on solutions. You can’t live a simpler life if you’re unwilling to change and let go of what you’re used to. Accept what is, let go of what was. Priorities don’t get done automatically. You have to make time for what’s important to you.
Time and money are two of the most valuable resources people have. When life gets simpler, the amount of these two things that a person has available will rise. That is the benefit of a simpler life in today’s world.
Lots of people dream of living a simpler life by spending their days sitting by a lake and enjoying nature or moving into a home in the middle of the woods. But that is not necessarily a simpler life for everyone. Instead, choose things that can keep you in the modern world, but still make life easier. The people have choices. They can start out with just one and then add some others later. Many wishes at a time will surely make your life complicated, hence gain one by one.
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