The story discusses the nature of relationships, particularly focusing on the roles of relatives, friends, and spouses. It emphasizes that relatives are given to us by birth, whereas friends and spouses are chosen. The text highlights that a wife, like a friend, is a partner in life and should be viewed as a "better half." It stresses the importance of being thoughtful when selecting a wife, acknowledging that no one can fully know another person's character before marriage. The narrative criticizes the tendency to view wives as outsiders or "imported commodities" compared to other family members who are accepted. This partial attitude can lead to marital issues and even divorce, which, while legally permissible in certain cases, is viewed negatively in a moral context. The author uses the analogy of marriage as a vehicle that requires both partners to work together harmoniously for a successful journey. A quote summarizes the varying perceptions of marriage as either a prize, a surprise, or a punishment, highlighting the subjective nature of marital experiences. The story concludes with questions about the applicability of these ideas to women, especially in light of evolving views on gender equality.

by Valibhai Musa in English Magazine

Writen by Valibhai Musa

Category Magazine