Have you ever noticed how when you are crying, people console you to stop crying rather than knowing the exact meaning, almost like crying is a bad thing? A social embarrassment? Why are we expected to always be okay? Why is not okay to not be okay? Why is strongness potrayed as something you should definitely have? Why not vulnerability because I remember that everytime something great was done by me, it was done in a vulnerable state be it stories, poems or anything else. We have been conditioned to fit in the ideal image of a human? But we can't