The art of convincing or deceiving is something that I have learned by being on the receiver’s end like many others or by seeing others being used in our society. So, I guess it is mostly based on experience of what I have learnt from it. However, the best form of deceiving or whatever you like to do with a person is to create desperation. There are two types of manipulation. One is direct or destructive and the other is indirect or subtle. 1. Impressing someone about their looks and confirming his importance to you: Impressing someone for motivating or persuading